As I was going through all the old posts of mine.. my quality of writing has been worsened instead of improving. It is not about language but about the topics I write. Older posts were the thoughts which directly came from heart. It is not that I don’t write now what my heart says. Probably I don’t write most of it. I start writing and then I realize – what rubbish I’m writing and leave it. Even this post I was bored of writing at this sentence. I was going to leave this too. But for a change I thought of keeping even if it sounds foolish.
Probably I need to respect my thoughts more whatever they are. But even it is true that when I respected all my weird thoughts and expressed them, people called me mad. I defended myself that time. But now I don’t feel to explain anything to anyone. I have accepted I think weird. I’m weird. But I don’t want to explain that even in weirdness I’m right.
The above part was written when I was in the mid of going through my all posts. Net was down. So I started writing. Then net was up and I went through all of them. And I’m writing this part after completing all. And then I realized even new posts are not bad. Or if they are bad, then old are bad too. So now there is not much change in me. I still respect my thoughts and express them though they are weird.
Sometimes we assume that we have changed. We are not as good as we were. But truth might be different. Reviewing the past might help. Blog is a nice way to keep your records and to review yourself.
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
I was going through all the posts of mine..
I found one I had written but didn’t post it. I don’t know why.
This phase is to teach me new lessons. Lessons are not easy. Fortunately or unfortunately they are related to people.
*Lesson no 1: Avoid emotional attachments with people.
Purpose:
To transform yourself from an emotional person to unemotional. In real words, Kill your emotions.
Reason:
They are going to hurt you in any way. So don't give them such chance to do so. ;)
Ways in which they will hurt you:
1)They won't live as per your expectations.
2)You won't be able to live as per their expectations. :D
3)You both will fulfill expectations of each other. But destiny will separate you. Thenga!! :P
And many more... (List will grow as you will get more experiences.;) ) (Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. :P)
Conclusion:
Keep safe Distance.
*Lesson no 2: Forget the lesson number 1 when you are with your parents. :)
Purpose:
To make you love your parents more.
Reason:
They always live for you. Though you will feel them more interfering, they are just caring for you.
Ways in which they'll care for you:
1)They will ask you thousands of times, What are you doing my dear child? Have you had your lunch, dinner etc. Have some rest!! etc etc.
You get angry when they ask so. But if your friend asks you so (the one who is going to hurt you), you feel nice.
2)They allow you to ignore them. Still they ask you above questions.
3)Even if you hurt them at extreme level, they will come to you back asking above questions again.
Conclusion:
Respect your parents.
There was third lesson too which was again beautiful. But I don’t want people come with questions. :D
I found one I had written but didn’t post it. I don’t know why.
This phase is to teach me new lessons. Lessons are not easy. Fortunately or unfortunately they are related to people.
*Lesson no 1: Avoid emotional attachments with people.
Purpose:
To transform yourself from an emotional person to unemotional. In real words, Kill your emotions.
Reason:
They are going to hurt you in any way. So don't give them such chance to do so. ;)
Ways in which they will hurt you:
1)They won't live as per your expectations.
2)You won't be able to live as per their expectations. :D
3)You both will fulfill expectations of each other. But destiny will separate you. Thenga!! :P
And many more... (List will grow as you will get more experiences.;) ) (Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. :P)
Conclusion:
Keep safe Distance.
*Lesson no 2: Forget the lesson number 1 when you are with your parents. :)
Purpose:
To make you love your parents more.
Reason:
They always live for you. Though you will feel them more interfering, they are just caring for you.
Ways in which they'll care for you:
1)They will ask you thousands of times, What are you doing my dear child? Have you had your lunch, dinner etc. Have some rest!! etc etc.
You get angry when they ask so. But if your friend asks you so (the one who is going to hurt you), you feel nice.
2)They allow you to ignore them. Still they ask you above questions.
3)Even if you hurt them at extreme level, they will come to you back asking above questions again.
Conclusion:
Respect your parents.
There was third lesson too which was again beautiful. But I don’t want people come with questions. :D
Sunday, March 14, 2010
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Thursday, March 11, 2010
चंद्रशेखर गोखलेंची चारोळी
आपण नेहमी त्याची सोबत धरावी
ज्याला आपण आवडतो
नाहीतर उगीचच आपल्या आवड़ीसाठी
आपण आपला वेळ दवडतो
ज्याला आपण आवडतो
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Sunday, March 7, 2010
books, bike..
This week was nice. I read a complete book in a single day after so long. Its a Sidney Sheldon's book.
And I rode to IIT Powai. This was awesome! When I entered inside it, it was amazing to feel that I had come so far on my cycle. I did all wrongs and after wrongs all the rights and I reached. While coming back I hit the speed of 57kmph, I was flying. If it was 6 O’clock in the morning I would not have pressed the break of rear wheel. And I’m sure speed would have been more than 70kmph. Wow! Next time, I’ll leave at 530 to get that speed. The high jump from 12km total to 27km was good in all. And while coming back coincidently I met Pranit and his parents. That was an additional bonus of getting appreciated. ;)
Starting weekend early helped.
I didn’t talk about 2 books that I read few days back. One is Tuesdays with Morrie. Robin Sharma and I think that everyone should read it atleast once! The other book was Life and Times of Hitler – a small book. It influenced me to read history of India and contemporary world.
And I rode to IIT Powai. This was awesome! When I entered inside it, it was amazing to feel that I had come so far on my cycle. I did all wrongs and after wrongs all the rights and I reached. While coming back I hit the speed of 57kmph, I was flying. If it was 6 O’clock in the morning I would not have pressed the break of rear wheel. And I’m sure speed would have been more than 70kmph. Wow! Next time, I’ll leave at 530 to get that speed. The high jump from 12km total to 27km was good in all. And while coming back coincidently I met Pranit and his parents. That was an additional bonus of getting appreciated. ;)
Starting weekend early helped.
I didn’t talk about 2 books that I read few days back. One is Tuesdays with Morrie. Robin Sharma and I think that everyone should read it atleast once! The other book was Life and Times of Hitler – a small book. It influenced me to read history of India and contemporary world.
:)
I believed it again – If you wish something, just make a true desire of it. Bring all positivity into it; from all possible means. Read self help books, meet people who inspire you, read their blogs, read inspiring articles, feel the positivity, bring it from anywhere. And then make the true desire. Destiny will have to give it to you.
And if you don’t get it, if you think you are not able to get all the positivity with you, then that thing is not for you; atleast at that point of time. You might get it at right time. That time, nobody will have to tell you to make a true desire and bring positivity into your thoughts. You’ll do it automatically and you’ll get it. We need to wait! :)
It reminds me of a mail once a friend had sent me. It said – Some people are like bamboo. Bamboo takes 5 years to get the first leaf on it. It takes time to get the power to grow. But when it starts growing, it hits the sky in short time. Bamboo is the tallest grass. So don’t ever criticize yourself. Keep building the power inside you. Positive results will have to come out once.
One more example another friend had given me. Filter coffee. Why filter coffee tastes better than ordinary coffee? Because it has undergone all processing with no shortcuts and no adjustments of taste. It takes time to get prepared. But once it is prepared it tastes the best. Same way we have to put our efforts in whatever we wish to do. Don’t lose faith in yourself. Move at your own pace. One day will be yours. :)
And if you don’t get it, if you think you are not able to get all the positivity with you, then that thing is not for you; atleast at that point of time. You might get it at right time. That time, nobody will have to tell you to make a true desire and bring positivity into your thoughts. You’ll do it automatically and you’ll get it. We need to wait! :)
It reminds me of a mail once a friend had sent me. It said – Some people are like bamboo. Bamboo takes 5 years to get the first leaf on it. It takes time to get the power to grow. But when it starts growing, it hits the sky in short time. Bamboo is the tallest grass. So don’t ever criticize yourself. Keep building the power inside you. Positive results will have to come out once.
One more example another friend had given me. Filter coffee. Why filter coffee tastes better than ordinary coffee? Because it has undergone all processing with no shortcuts and no adjustments of taste. It takes time to get prepared. But once it is prepared it tastes the best. Same way we have to put our efforts in whatever we wish to do. Don’t lose faith in yourself. Move at your own pace. One day will be yours. :)
Monday, March 1, 2010
Just like that! :)
Just now, I watched a scene from Wake up Sid on “movie on demand” channel.
It was the scene when Konkana goes with Rahul khanna for a musical program. She says she likes Bollywood songs because they can be easily sung. And with this sentence of hers, he calls her immature. And she gets upset. Before few days if someone called me a child by my behavior, it didn’t matter to me. Rather, I used to be happy that I still have not got all worries that all adults have. I still am not scared of doing impractical things which might be risky but will make me happy. I still do mischief with my friends, my parents and make them smile. I was happy to be a child. But now it is not the age to be a child. Because I have observed that children get ignored easily. They are taken for granted. Many times they remain unanswered. And most importantly, they are considered poor in knowledge or foolish. It is true. It happens with me too. It is a lesson for me. I need to grow up; for myself. Everyone realizes this at early age. I realized it now. Doesn’t matter. Better late than never. :)
The next part of the scene was – she reaches home with bad mood. Everything at home is just the way she wants it to be. But still she keeps talking with irritation to Ranveer. Then he starts pouring water on her face, hair and she starts smiling again. How true! Whenever something is wrong with us, every right thing looks wrong. We need to do some strange, childish but bliss-giving act. And we feel better. Childish things are not bad at all.. but for others. Not for that child. :)
It was the scene when Konkana goes with Rahul khanna for a musical program. She says she likes Bollywood songs because they can be easily sung. And with this sentence of hers, he calls her immature. And she gets upset. Before few days if someone called me a child by my behavior, it didn’t matter to me. Rather, I used to be happy that I still have not got all worries that all adults have. I still am not scared of doing impractical things which might be risky but will make me happy. I still do mischief with my friends, my parents and make them smile. I was happy to be a child. But now it is not the age to be a child. Because I have observed that children get ignored easily. They are taken for granted. Many times they remain unanswered. And most importantly, they are considered poor in knowledge or foolish. It is true. It happens with me too. It is a lesson for me. I need to grow up; for myself. Everyone realizes this at early age. I realized it now. Doesn’t matter. Better late than never. :)
The next part of the scene was – she reaches home with bad mood. Everything at home is just the way she wants it to be. But still she keeps talking with irritation to Ranveer. Then he starts pouring water on her face, hair and she starts smiling again. How true! Whenever something is wrong with us, every right thing looks wrong. We need to do some strange, childish but bliss-giving act. And we feel better. Childish things are not bad at all.. but for others. Not for that child. :)
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