Motha hona, responsibility ghena mhanje samorchyane magitlela tyala puravna asa nahi. Te tar barech service providers kartat. Khara motha hona mhanje samorchyachi garaj olkhun tyane te na magtach tyala dena.

Difficulties are there to stop those who don't want it badly enough.

आजकाल cafeteria सैरभैर झालाय..

आयुष्य बदलतंय …

Failure

When you are winning, you enjoy the moments. You don't introspect; you don't think why you are doing so well. But the moment you fail, you start introspecting. "Oh! If I had done this way, probably I would have succeeded". "I think this is what I did wrong". But the truth is you are not going back to the past to change the truth. So what you can do is, live in present and plan for future - How you are going to mitigate the failure. OR this is very difficult right at the moment. So first step you can take is to calm yourself because an agitated mind cannot take right decisions. Let the time pass. And then start planning for next steps.

mmm.. can't think of any title!

Movies - I love watching them. but I hate them too. They trigger some hidden feelings which you intentionally buried deep inside your heart. Or they remind you of people you don't want to remember at all. And then why I like them is just watching another movie that fills your heart with exactly counter feelings, can also help to get rid of any sad feelings. That suggests me how impacted we are by movies. Books too, for the same matter. But they have slow effect but sometimes even deeper one.

Quote of the day

Our unity lies in our laughing with each other, not at each other.

- Jug Suraiya (TOI)

"Thank You"

Today was a "Thank You" day for me. I sent thank you emails to people who I felt I should have sent to; for their support in past few days. Some people, I know, don't think much and accept it. But some people may feel embarrassed. Even I'd feel the same if someone expresses it so explicitly. And still, I sent it to someone today. Someone very old! I hope he doesn't feel embarrassed about it. Maybe, I shouldn't have sent that. Anyway, now the email has gone. If he feels so and doesn't reply, I will know why. I'll take care of it next time. But I know he is a good person and won't despise me.

I was about to write "But next time, I'm not going to send such things to people I have doubt on, as this creates complexities more to me than to them.", in this blog post and he replied. I'm relieved from the complexities! :) There are nice people in the world who know how to handle praises without offending next person. Does that come with age? :)

जुनी diary

जुनी diary चाळत असताना त्यातले एक पान कोरे मिळाले. तारीख पाहिली आणि भूतकाळात सहज डोकावून पाहिले तर आठवले कि हा तो दिवस होता ज्या दिवशी diary ची मुळी गरजच नव्हती. ती आठवण अजुन ही ताजी आहे.

Fear of Transition Gone!

It was only yesterday night I finished thinking/blogging(not published yet)/accepting  about the changes that I'm going to face after I'll get married, became bit nervous and this morning I read this - http://cycle-diaries.blogspot.in/

That's too inspiring! I'm enlightened. :)

Respect one's privacy

I hate when someone interferes with my privacy which I don't intend to share. Afterall, I have right to hide things about *my* life. It's my life. I will disclose when it's the right time. Why can't people wait and watch? I'll tell when I'll feel comfortable. As long as you are not involved in the matter, why do you care? I'd appreciate your patience. 

Reliance is not reliable.

Sense of Life

In one of the books of hers, Ayn Rand says - 

To the extent to which a man is mentally active, i.e., motivated by the desire to know, to understand, his mind works as the programmer of his emotional computer-and his sense of life develops into a bright counterpart of a rational philosophy. To the extent to which a man evades, the programming of his emotional computer is done by chance influences; by random impressions, associations, imitations, by undigested snatches of environmental bromides, by cultural osmosis. If evasion or lethargy is a man's predominant method of mental functioning, the result is a sense of life dominated by fear-a soul like a shapeless piece of clay stamped by footprints going in all directions. (In later years, such a man cries that he has lost his sense of identity; the fact is that he never acquired it.)

So True!

This part of my life, this part right here, is called "playing dirty roles". Unintentionally, but knowingly!

Busyness stemies accomplishments..

http://tinyurl.com/cwtps8h

 Very true, many times!

You become what you think/pretend you are

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Tangled

I lost my comb and hence I couldn't comb my hair today and nobody even realized. And now I know how badly I comb my hair everyday. :D

कुणाचे काय तर कुणाचे काय

प्रत्येकाचाच कुणी न कुणी आदर्श असतो. मात्र आपल्याला आदर्श मानणाऱ्यासमोर आपल्याला भाव खायचाच असतो. ;)

I'd always prefer to stay with diffident people rather than those always smartly talking brainies. I feel pity about them. They are so selfish that I wonder sometimes if they never developed the part of the brain which is meant to think about others.

Usefulness

Few months ago, I had started getting the feeling of being useless. The work I was doing wasn't inspiring me. And then when this feeling of being useless went on its peak. I accepted that I'm useless and then started moving on. I thought if I can't be useful to anyone, I'd start enjoying myself doing things that I like. Sometimes it is good to accept your weaknesses. That makes you stop thinking over them and start looking for the ways to overcome the feeling. And good thing is that, you just don't overcome that feeling, it also gets you out of the state. So I started doing things that I liked. And later, I realized that I'm not useless anymore. I was useful to myself and automatically I started becoming useful to others too.

Never try to be useful, try to be yourself. That gets you the best out of you to become the best of usefulness.