Failure

When you are winning, you enjoy the moments. You don't introspect; you don't think why you are doing so well. But the moment you fail, you start introspecting. "Oh! If I had done this way, probably I would have succeeded". "I think this is what I did wrong". But the truth is you are not going back to the past to change the truth. So what you can do is, live in present and plan for future - How you are going to mitigate the failure. OR this is very difficult right at the moment. So first step you can take is to calm yourself because an agitated mind cannot take right decisions. Let the time pass. And then start planning for next steps.