Failure

When you are winning, you enjoy the moments. You don't introspect; you don't think why you are doing so well. But the moment you fail, you start introspecting. "Oh! If I had done this way, probably I would have succeeded". "I think this is what I did wrong". But the truth is you are not going back to the past to change the truth. So what you can do is, live in present and plan for future - How you are going to mitigate the failure. OR this is very difficult right at the moment. So first step you can take is to calm yourself because an agitated mind cannot take right decisions. Let the time pass. And then start planning for next steps.

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Movies - I love watching them. but I hate them too. They trigger some hidden feelings which you intentionally buried deep inside your heart. Or they remind you of people you don't want to remember at all. And then why I like them is just watching another movie that fills your heart with exactly counter feelings, can also help to get rid of any sad feelings. That suggests me how impacted we are by movies. Books too, for the same matter. But they have slow effect but sometimes even deeper one.

Quote of the day

Our unity lies in our laughing with each other, not at each other.

- Jug Suraiya (TOI)

"Thank You"

Today was a "Thank You" day for me. I sent thank you emails to people who I felt I should have sent to; for their support in past few days. Some people, I know, don't think much and accept it. But some people may feel embarrassed. Even I'd feel the same if someone expresses it so explicitly. And still, I sent it to someone today. Someone very old! I hope he doesn't feel embarrassed about it. Maybe, I shouldn't have sent that. Anyway, now the email has gone. If he feels so and doesn't reply, I will know why. I'll take care of it next time. But I know he is a good person and won't despise me.

I was about to write "But next time, I'm not going to send such things to people I have doubt on, as this creates complexities more to me than to them.", in this blog post and he replied. I'm relieved from the complexities! :) There are nice people in the world who know how to handle praises without offending next person. Does that come with age? :)

जुनी diary

जुनी diary चाळत असताना त्यातले एक पान कोरे मिळाले. तारीख पाहिली आणि भूतकाळात सहज डोकावून पाहिले तर आठवले कि हा तो दिवस होता ज्या दिवशी diary ची मुळी गरजच नव्हती. ती आठवण अजुन ही ताजी आहे.

Fear of Transition Gone!

It was only yesterday night I finished thinking/blogging(not published yet)/accepting  about the changes that I'm going to face after I'll get married, became bit nervous and this morning I read this - http://cycle-diaries.blogspot.in/

That's too inspiring! I'm enlightened. :)

Respect one's privacy

I hate when someone interferes with my privacy which I don't intend to share. Afterall, I have right to hide things about *my* life. It's my life. I will disclose when it's the right time. Why can't people wait and watch? I'll tell when I'll feel comfortable. As long as you are not involved in the matter, why do you care? I'd appreciate your patience.